DEAR FRIEND

You're invited.

Come discover the way of the heart – the pathway home to your deepest satisfaction. At the foundation of all that is offered here is love – the highest expression of our humanity. You have already come a long way on the journey, yet in a way you have just begun. It is my joy to meet you where you are and journey together, offering guidance where I may, through this next very important step in your lives together.
DEAR FRIEND
You're invited.
Come discover the way of the heart – the pathway home to your deepest satisfaction.  At the foundation of all that is offered here is love – the highest expression of our humanity. You have already come a long way on the journey, yet in a way you have just begun. It is my joy to meet you where you are and journey together, offering guidance where I may, through this next very important step in your lives together.
Hello.
My thirty five years as a non-denominational minister in Mendocino and Mexico have helped me develop a calm and grounded presence as an officiant, and a deep appreciation for this - your  unique and personal rite of passage into marriage.

I offer you my warmth and willingness, my full attention to your needs and vision, my heartfelt words, my time and my experience. Together we will craft just the right ceremony to infuse your wedding with beauty and meaning.
Hello.
My thirty five years as a non- denominational minister in Mendocino and Mexico have helped me develop a calm and grounded presence as a wedding officiant, and a deep appreciation for this - your unique and personal rite of passage into marriage.

I offer you my warmth and willingness, my full attention to your needs and vision, my heartfelt words, my time and my experience. Together we will craft just the right ceremony to infuse your wedding with beauty and meaning.
Wedding Vessel
by Nansee New

NON-DENOMINATIONAL WEDDINGS & ELOPEMENTS
Using poetry and metaphors from nature, I offer custom ceremonies that bring creative focus to your values and vision, while fully engaging your guests in a richly inspiring, memorable celebration of your love.
UNIQUE CEREMONIES
BILINGUAL
Bilingual weddings for Hispanic families honor your family heritage. Bodas Bilingues en Español reconocen y honran sus familias y raíces...."Todos los aquí presente, pueden sentir lo mágico de su amor.”
LGBTQ
Your wedding is a precious opportunity for your friends and family to meet, to share and to celebrate your unique loving partnership...."We honor this potent moment when the power of nature, of friendship, family, and LOVE all join together to celebrate this flowering between you, under the canopy of this huge sky."
VOW RENEWAL
Vow Renewal Ceremonies honor a seasoned marriage that emerges from years of shared experience. Each of you has grown. Your relationship has deepened. Here, you strengthen your mutual foundation, expressing gratitude for the marriage that has brought you to full appreciation of your shared life.
WEDDING VESSEL
Sacred Wedding Vessel Ceremonies include this small two-spouted vessel created in my pottery studio.  “Beloved, I share this cup of life, as a dedication to living from my heart. May I see myself in you."

Wedding Vessel
by Nansee New

NON-DENOMINATIONAL WEDDINGS & ELOPEMENTS
Using poetry and metaphors from nature, I offer custom ceremonies that bring creative focus to your values and vision, while fully engaging your guests in a richly inspiring, memorable celebration of your love.
UNIQUE CEREMONIES
BILINGUAL
Bilingual weddings for Hispanic families honor your family heritage. Bodas Bilingues en Español reconocen sus familias y raíces.
"Nosotros reconocemos su profundo nivel de compromiso y el respeto del uno por el otro. Su logro es la creación de un paraíso seguro donde ambos pueden florecer."
LGBTQ
Your wedding is a precious opportunity for your friends and family to meet, to share and to celebrate your unique loving partnership...."We honor this potent moment when the power of nature, of friendship, family, and LOVE all join together to celebrate this flowering between you, under the canopy of this huge sky.
VOW RENEWAL
Vow Renewal Ceremonies honor a seasoned marriage that emerges from years of shared experience. Each of you has grown. Your relationship has deepened. Here, you strengthen your mutual foundation, expressing gratitude for the marriage that has brought you to full appreciation of your shared life.
WEDDING VESSEL
Sacred Wedding Vessel Ceremonies include this small two-spouted vessel created in my pottery studio.  “Beloved, I share this cup of life, as a dedication to living from my heart. May I see myself in you."
Unforgettable. 
"The depth of Nansee's spirit combined with her calm, nurturing manner, helped to create our most precious, tender, truly unforgettable wedding."

Meaningful.
 "Nansee made everyone feel that we were an important part of this very special and meaningful declaration."

Inspiring.
"The ceremony was an inspiring reminder and reaffirmation of the solemnity and spirituality of the marriage vows."  
Eloquent.
"Nansee's  beautiful feminine strength fully grounded an eloquently delivered ceremony that was clearly flowing from her heart."
Professional. 
"She is a professional, but more than that, a caring, sweet, and calming soul. "








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May you live long and well
May you grow in wisdom and understanding
May you explore the world together with wonder
Guided by love.

– NATIVE AMERICAN PRAYER
Journal.

Vow Writing Tutorial

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